Electronically excited states characterized by intramolecular charge transfer play an essential role in many biological processes and optical devices. The ability to make quantitative ab initio predictions of the relative energetics involved is a challenging yet desirable goal, especially for large molecules in solution. In this work, we present a data set of 61 experimental measurements of absorption and emission processes, both in the gas phase and in solvents representing a broad range of polarities, which involve intramolecular charge transfer mediated by a nonzero, "twisted" dihedral angle between one or more donor and acceptor subunits. Among a variety of density functionals investigated within the framework of linear-response theory, the "optimally tuned" LRC-ωPBE functional, which utilizes a system-specific yet nonempirical procedure to specify the range-separation parameter, emerges as the preferred choice. For the entire set of excitation energies, involving changes in dipole moment ranging from 4 to >20 Debye, the mean signed and absolute errors are 0.02 and 0.18 eV, respectively (compared, e.g., to -0.30 and 0.30 for PBE0, 0.44 and 0.47 for LRC-ωPBEh, 0.83 and 0.83 for ωB97X-V). We analyze the performance of polarizable continuum solvation models available in Q-Chem that partition the solvent response into fast and slow time scales, and clear trends emerge when measurements corresponding to the four small 4-(dimethylamino)benzonitrile (DMABN)-like molecules and a charged species are excluded. We make the case that the large errors found only for small molecules in the gas phase and weak solvents cannot be expected to improve via the optimal tuning procedure, which enforces a condition that is exact only in the well-separated donor-acceptor limit, and present empirical evidence implicating the outsized importance for small donor-acceptor systems of relaxation effects that cannot be accounted for by the linear-response time-dependent density functional theory within the adiabatic approximation. Finally, we demonstrate the utility of the optimally tuned density functional approach by targeting the charge-transfer states of a large biomimetic model system for light-harvesting structures in Photosystem II.